There aren't many songs that you can say fit how an alpha male is, or supposed to be, but here is one more that pretty much says it all. The link to hear it by Sammy Davis is just below the lyrics of the song. The interesting thing about the other alpha male song I posted, That's Life by Frank Sinatra, Sammy and Frank were part of a group of guys called "The Rat Pack". You probably all know this but their behavior and talk would be considered politically incorrect and offensive in these "woke" times.
A sad commentary on how far this country has devolved. Listen to the song--Davis is incredible. The lyrics will inspire, encourage and drive you. I Gotta Be Me:
Whether I'm right or whether I'm wrong Whether I find a place in this world or never belong I gotta be me, I've gotta be me What else can I be but what I am
I want to live, not merely survive And I won't give up this dream of life that keeps me alive I gotta be me, I gotta be me The dream that I see makes me what I am
That far-away prize, a world of success Is waiting for me if I heed the call I won't settle down, won't settle for less As long as there's a chance that I can have it all
I'll go it alone, that's how it must be I can't be right for somebody else If I'm not right for me I gotta be free, I've gotta be free Daring to try, to do it or die I've gotta be me
I'll go it alone, that's how it must be I can't be right for somebody else If I'm not right for me I gotta be free, I just gotta be free Daring to try, to do it or die I gotta be me
“Be radical, have principles, be absolute, be that which the bourgeoisie calls an extremist: give yourself without counting or calculating, don't accept what they call ‘the reality of life' and act in such a way that you won't be accepted by that kind of ‘life', never abandon the principle of struggle.” Julius Evola
Coach, athlete, philosopher, Percy Cerutty's insights are timeless and of great value for alpha males.
"That without strength, efficient organs, intelligence and an absence of secret fears man is only a parody, and for him life cannot be fully lived. He does not dominate his enviroment, it is the enviroment that dominates him. Such a man is not free.
Only the mentally free and the physically strong can live this type of life to the full. Nature ordains it this way. There is no catch to it. Nature favors the fit."
Consider the following by Bruce Lee from one of his books. Pay very close attention to the last paragraph.
"The doubter's said, 'Man cannot fly.' The doers said, 'Maybe,but we'll try,' And finally soared Into the morning's glow, While nonbelievers Watched from below.
The doubters claimed The world was flat. Ships plunged over its edge, And that was that! Yet a brand new world Some doers found, And returned to prove This planet round.
The doubters knew 'Twas fact,Of course,No noisy gadget Would e'er replace the horse.' Yet the carriages Of doers,sans equine, Came to traverse All our roads in time.
But to those who kept saying 'It can't be done,' Never are the victories Or the honors won. But,rather, By the believing,doing kind, While the doubters Watched from far behind."
Doubts must be recognized for what they are, absolute poison to achieving your goals.
I have read many accounts of criminals who have talked about who they choose to rob. They all say they look for the "soft target," those people who look weak and vulnerable.
Alpha males should never appear weak and vulnerable.
Consider the following because, as I have said previously several times, in America we now live under a totalitarian regime. If you say things on social(ist) media or in the public square that doesn't go along with the current regime's beliefs, you will be silenced in the ways you see listed below. Call it doxed, call it cancelled, call it whatever you please, but recognize it for what it is, the suppression of freedom of speech.
Below is one man's view on the situation. What he says makes me wonder, are we going to compromise and go along just to get along or are we going to say, NO?
"Everyone's been Neutered.
Most adult men are held by their balls to the mob.
Just takes one viral Tweet to have autistic basement dwellers find out where they work,
The school they went to, their address and all their family members.
Most men have a family to take care of.
They aren't ready to be fired.
They aren't ready to have their diploma revoked by the issuing University.
They aren't ready for their wife to be fired by association.
They aren't ready for Teachers to pull their kids out of school to talk about their parents.
And these men know this.
Deep down, they know they are cucked.
That's why they make Anon accounts on Twitter and stay quiet.
They do "the smart thing".
That's why they just agree.
They don't want the smoke.
They look at what's happening to me and laugh that I deserve it for my big mouth.
They laugh while their son decides to sterilize himself and chop his dick off.
They know they're cucked and think it's not a big deal.
Some of them just protect their own family and watch their neighbors' son chop his dick off instead.
Men KNOW what is happening is wrong.
They're just so dependent on The Matrix they would get RUINED if they ever resisted.
This is exactly why THE REAL WORLD is so important.
You need to make money that can't just be taken away because you wrote a tweet that men in dresses shouldn't read to children.
Every Anon account on the internet is a testament to the level of fear most men live in.
They know they live under mob rule.
They know they can't resist, so they hide." A.Tate
Saw the following posted somewhere and thought I would pass it along. Call it rules for living for alpha males. Mean what you say, say what you mean, go for it, live life vigorously, all come to mind when I read this.
Do not live half a life
and do not die a half death
If you choose silence, then be silent
When you speak, do so until you are finished
If you accept, then express it bluntly
Do not mask it
If you refuse then be clear about it
for an ambiguous refusal is but a weak acceptance
Do not accept half a solution
Do not believe half truths
Do not dream half a dream
Do not fantasize about half hopes
Half the way will get you no where
You are a whole that exists to live a life
not half a life. ~Khalil Gibran
My favorite lines above are: "for an ambiguous refusal is but a weak acceptance" and "Do not fantasize about half hopes Half the way will get you no where."
Pictured above is the U.S. Women's National Soccer Team.
Let me get this right, the majority are kneeling during the National Anthem. Why? Is it because of past mistakes made by our nation that have since been rectified? Is it because certain individuals have committed heinous acts and they choose to blame everyone and/or the nation?
Or is it because they are ignorant, spoiled and oblivious to the blessings and opportunies they have been given?
Here's my take: these jokers who are kneeling don't even realize that in most countries on earth they wouldn't get away with a display such as this.
In closing, the freak with the purple hair on the left of this picture recently retired. On her way out she did all her teammates a favor by saying that she was all in on biological males who "identify" as females competing against other women.
I thought of this after I read New York City officials were looking into taking down the statues of George Washington and Thomas Jefferson. Makes sense to me, apply 2023 sensibilities to the 1700's.
What these dummies don't realize is that without these men and others like them, they would not be in the America, and the place they are now in. But, as we who are aware recognize, tearing down statues is all about wiping out and demonizing our history.
The wolves have taken over the henhouse, the genie is out of the bottle, whatever. What I am saying here is that I believe the way this country going, and the nature of its people, the damage will be continuing and is irreversible.
Anyone still looking for a majority of Americans to rise up and overcome this onslaught on our rights and heritage? Ask the January 6 demonstrators, Trump and all his allies and lawyers as well as RFK Jr. and the hundreds of other citizens who have been doxed and persecuted for disagreeing with the regime in charge. Do you still think "your guy" is going to be part of a "fair" election and change all this?
Keep dreaming! The regime controls every facet of your life.
Move to the country, form intentional communities.
Dave was not only a champion athlete but an astute observer of life and a great writer. Consider the following commentary on America and its people over the decades to this present time.
The Decline by Dave Draper:
"Here is a rough bullet-summary of a devastating decline of modern mankind. Laugh it up. Pretend it's a badly scripted, poorly directed B-flick from a Hollywood starring the Osmond family.
Fitness takes hold in the '60s and erupts in the '70s. Swell. Big biz and big bucks do their dirty work: feeding frenzy, deception and hype, confusion and gluttony. No comprehensive education offered, intended or achieved, just sell, exploit, sell. Aerobics will set you free, buy a $7,000 treadmill.
Fast food arrives in the '60s --- just what we needed --- waistlines and appetites grow, time shrinks.
Schools drop athletic programs and classes on nutrition. Junk food and fast food is installed in school halls and cafeterias instead.
Fast-track living increases across the fruited plains to accommodate rising costs; God's replaced by a second job, second car, second mortgage and declining morality.
Generation gap in understanding critical need for sound exercise and right eating widens... going, going, gone.
Less family life, more single-parent families, less home front education from the now nutrition- and exercise-ignorant moms and dads results in the development of horrible eating habits and passive lifestyles.
Computers and video games replace physical play and sports for adults and kids alike, Standard game rules: 1) Sit on butt and 2) Press the buttons.
Governments miss the picture by light-years. The FDA and other agencies are 70 years behind the times in nutrition information they offer to the populace.
Sugar and grain lobbyists and fast food bosses control the government and they control society, the herds, the sheep.
Terrorism, wars, serial killers and small and large thieves --- wickedness --- removes the prevailing wind from the ship's sails and strain at man's hopes.
The match is not over yet. It's time to get back up and fight like a man, like a woman, right here, right now. Exercise, eat right and grin with joy, and build enabling discipline and enliven the weary character as you do."
Courage to be yourself and going against what you are being told, and in some cases ordered to, is not all that common these days. Consider the following by Dave Draper:"This is not a startling revelation to you and to me. but it's worth repeating to our neighbor: The best thing we can do in a continuing effort to enhance our apparently declining world is to take control of our lives, personally, individually.
Forget war, pandemics, crime and immorality for a minute and notice we are surrounded by masses just poking along like life was a chore, the late shift, a bad habit or a dull pain and not a fragrant gift. Wake up friends, wake up. We're broken, we need fixing and it's in our control. It's simple, yet it takes courage and work.
Can you hear me? It takes personal courage and it takes hard work.
I'm losing most of the population, I can tell. 'Courage and hard work' do not ring a bell in the town square; they don't register on the scale of Popular Daily Behavior and I do not see them on today's list of Currently Applied Qualities in Vogue Magazine."
We are not of this world--we are not like most of the population because that is the way to a nothing life.
It is my observation that in recent years discipline is not as common a human attribute in people as it once was. Figures showing that well over 50% of Americans are overweight and surveys that cite a significant drop in youth(teens) participation in organized sports would appear to, in part, confirm this.
Also, we are now more of a spectator nation than we have ever been. As I am sure you all know, serious involvement in anything, not just sports, requires discipline. Please note that Dave Draper echoes a familiar theme of philosopher/coach Percy Cerutty in that involvement in athletics have benefits that go beyond the physical:
"Discipline is not owned by repeating mantras, reading a book, watching a video or following a formula.
Discipline is founded in need and desire and developed in deed. Discipline is yours.
You want something, if you can't buy it or steal it, you must work for it. The more you want and need it, the harder you try to get it.
The wanting and needing, the working, trying and getting combine and eventually present discipline. Great or small, this stoic quality is a benefactor assuring that you become a better person, more complete and capable and aware, as you pursue your healthy and humble goal giving it your very best shot."
The forgotten element of physical training--you can become a better person overall.
The idea for this post came the other day while I was driving and heard 'That's Life' by Frank Sinatra on the radio. As I listened it hit me that this was a real alpha male song. Below are the lyrics and below that is a link to Frank singing the song.
An alpha male himself (Sinatra), the song is about never giving up, unending determination to achieve, reinventing yourself when the situation calls for it and ignoring what others say about what you are trying to accomplish.
Give the song a listen. It doesn't matter what kind of music you are into. The lyrics and performance make it. Here goes:
That's Life
(That's life) That's what all the people say You're riding high in April, shot down in May But I know I'm gonna change that tune When I'm back on top, back on top in June
I said that's life (That's life) And as funny as it may seem Some people get their kicks Stomping on a dream But I don't let it, let it get me down Cause this fine old world, it keeps spinnin' around
I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate, a poet A pawn and a king I've been up and down and over and out And I know one thing Each time I find myself Flat on my face I pick myself up and get Back in the race
That's life (That's life) I tell you, I can't deny it I thought of quitting, baby But my heart just ain't gonna buy it And if I didn't think it was worth one single try I'd jump right on a big bird and then I'd fly
I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate, a poet A pawn and a king I've been up and down and over and out And I know one thing Each time I find myself layin' Flat on my face I just pick myself up and get Back in the race
That's life (That's life) That's life and I can't deny it Many times I thought of cutting out but my heart won't buy it But if there's nothing shaking come this here July I'm gonna roll myself up In a big ball and die My, my
Who are you? Seems like a strange question I know but have you given any thought to the things that define you? For instance, what do you believe in? I'm talking here about your core beliefs and values. Beliefs that you have developed over the years as a result of living, observation and life experiences. Do you have any or do you just "go with the flow"?
If you are thinking that you don't really have any, then it is my intention to help get you to where you need and should be.
The person who doesn't know who they are and what they stand for is a rudderless ship bobbing along and missing out on getting the most from himself and his life.
It's all about knowing who you are, what you' are doing, where you are going and being in control of your destiny.
"Perhaps the only thing that survives us is the stories we tell with our lives, and the stories told about us when we are long gone. What will yours be?
You decide.
Every day.
Every deed, every dollar, every drawn breath.
You can turn it all around in a moment, or lose everything in a heartbeat.
What does the most fiery, the most fearsome, the most ferocious life look like?
I believe: Confidence and a belief in the worthiness of your quest is essential.
Setting personal goals? The above is often the missing ingredient. It's why so many give up their goals and aspirations, deep inside too many people either question, or don't believe in, the worthiness of their goal(s). I believe it is essential that we seriously examine ourselves before beginning our quest.
For instance, athletic goals? The world will tell you it's utterly frivolous to pursue them. They'll say, "you're not going to make a living from doing it so why are you spending so much time with it?" They can't grasp the fact that this "activity" you engage in is your passion, part of who you are.
So, ignore these people, the naysayers, those who don't respect the life you choose. Surround yourself with positivity and those who are going for it.
Live life vigorously! Tomorrow is promised to NO one.
"Do not become discourage because you may affirm that you were not born strong.
It is true that some types seem to inherit the factor of physical strength, just as some seem to inherit more brains. However, life has taught me in very many examples I have known personally, that with some natural flair for anything at all we can achieve heights quite exceptional if we will only believe in ourselves, and do the essential work, find the true way."
"Indeed--those who are hell-bent to succeed are those who often do what others believe to be implausible or impossible." Quote by legendary Coach/Philosopher Percy Cerutty.
I agree totally with what Coach Cerutty says. I have seen proof of the above quote many times throughout my long coaching career.
The Suffer in Silence article is coming sometime soon. I have been quite busy with different things pertaining to the physical and mental/learning side of life.
Today I thought I would bring up something I've been wondering about for a while. I don't why it bugs me but it seems indicative of the kind of society we've morphed into.
Here it is: At what point did it become more acceptable for males to greet each other with a hug as opposed to a handshake? This practice has become quite prevalent in recent years.
Personally? I don't want to hug any male. It's weird and uncomfortable.
I asked this question on a self-described FB alpha male site a few years back. You know the type, the one that says if you don't sport a full beard then you can't be a REAL man. Well, the guy got back to me and said the kind of hug he gave was like the one Stallone gave in one of his Rocky movies, a sort of shoulder-to-shoulder hug. I sensed he was surprised by my question, maybe a little uncomfortable with it. To his response I say, Yeah, I think I'll base my social skills, for lack of a better word, on what a movie has or what an actor does.
For males, I think it is better to look to the alpha males of many, many years ago as role models in such matters and behavior. And frankly, I couldn't imagine any of them giving each other hugs when they met.
Following the theme of a recent article on the decline of America, the Frog in the pot of water analogy, this again is an admonition not to be seduced by the misinformation and lies our government is spewing forth on a daily basis.
Forewarned is forearmed as they say.
Next article entitled, Suffer in Silence, is coming Sunday.
You've probably all heard the story about the frog in a slow to boil pot of water. The gist of this analogy in a nutshell is: the frog initially feels so comfortable in the warm soothing water that he is oblivious to the impending danger that the water will soon boil and kill him.
This is how I view most Americans today. Oblivious to the impending doom that is about to come upon them. I am not saying ALL Americans, I'm referring to most. Let me give some examples:
1.Our President has severe dementia and daily shows this and his weakness on the world stage.
2. We have a totalitarian government that does as it pleases, it punishes, cancels and/or harasses its perceived rivals using the Dept. of Justice, the F.B.I., C.I.A. and State governments to do its bidding.
3.We have a Media that is an arm of the regime in charge and refuses to give the unbiased and impartial truth. In fact, it goes along with the agencies listed above and suppresses the truth.
4.We have a President who is sending billions of dollars to a country that is being destroyed by war on a daily basis. Ukraine lost this war months ago but a compromised, corrupt President continues to keep it going by sending the funds.
5.We live in a country that legalized homosexual marriage to now where something called transgenderism is thought to be a cause equal to the civil rights movement of the 60's. People who know better refuse to describe what a female or male is, implying that there isn't any difference, it's what you identify as. And we would be remiss not to include that the word pedophile is slowing being replaced by the term, minor attracted person. For what reason, to eventually legitimize pedophilia?
6. Our children are being subjected to indoctrination related to perverted sexual subjects in grade school on up. Among other things, encouraging the questioning of who and what they are sexually. We also can't forget that they are given propaganda in the disguise of being history that teaches whites and this country abused and became great by exploiting others.
7. This administration has opened the Southern border and some 4 million unvetted illegals, mostly young males, have been allowed in. I should add that they come from 150+ foreign countries. These people are being dumped into cities throughout our country, many have serious criminal records and have already been committing havoc and crime. Why do you think the Biden administration is doing this? Have you ever even asked yourself why, or are you thinking, "if it's not in my backyard, who cares"? Well, it's coming to your backyard dweeb!
Do you ever think all this is the purposeful destruction of America? Do ya think it may be part of a greater plan to remake America in someone's twisted Globalist image?--no problem here--- just roll me up a legalized joint, pass me a beer, and put on the football game while you are at it.
8.The marginalizing and demonizing of the White race. Now before you label me some kind of racist, let me say that if you look at the prior articles I have posted on this subject they are all backed up by fact.
Here's an example, some white person beats up or kills a black person it gets wall to wall media coverage for days. If you reverse the situation, black on white crime, nary a peep from the media. The reality? Black on white crime FAR outnumbers white on black crime.
Consider the tearing down of statues of famous white historical figures for the most questionable of reasons.
Think about the lessening portrayal of what I call alpha males in movies and on TV. White males are now routinely made to look like oafs and jerks. And if you have a heroic white male he is always accompanied by a strong black male or a strong white or black female. The days of John Wayne are gone, and please, don't tell me Tom Cruise fits the bill.
9. Rampant crime, no-bail reform and its consequences. I live in New York and our useless Governor Hochul has instituted a no-bail reform policy for criminals. Under this, too many crimes do not warrant staying in jail under this insane policy. So what we see is this revolving door situation. A criminal commits a crime, gets out and commits more crimes. New York is one of many states that have a no-bail policy.
Then, in many states there are district attorneys who are soft on crime and will not prosecute criminals appropriately, or worse yet, not even punish them. For instance, we see "smash and grab" thieves and "flash mobs" robbing stores with no consequences. This phenomenon has spread to every major city and shows no sign of letting up. Every type of crime is increasing, not decreasing, in our cities.
I could probably list more but at the moment I can't think of any.
I close with this question and a comment, are you that frog mentioned at the beginning of this article?
America is self-destructing, it's imploding and rotting from within. Its days are numbered.
You can tell yourself that things are going to get better, or, if "my guy" gets in he will right the ship. You can also have the inane belief that "Jesus is about to return and straighten all this out." If you think that it's my belief you don't know your whole Bible. That's Old and New Testament folks, emphasis on Old Testament here.
In prior posts on this website I have written on what we need to do to be prepared and I will post more about on this subject in the future.
The earth and the universe don’t care if you live or die.
You could drop dead right now, and the world would keep on turning.
If you want a good life, you gotta make it yourself." A.Tate
Obviously, he is not referring to close family or a devoted spouse here. It's the world in general like co-workers, bosses, organizations, the government, politicians, etc.
To paraphrase Jack Donovan--you have to start your world--today, not tomorrow. Tomorrow is guaranteed to no one.
"I believe that Men have the Sacred Duty to rigorously train themselves both physically and mentally every day." Tenet 21--Andrew Tate. Hard to argue with that. Funny how you don't see many other prominent figures saying this.
Men, be a doer not a watcher.
Stop watching multi-millionaires playing children's games as you sit around and satiate pretty much every desire you have while getting fatter and lazier by the day.
Stop watching stupid movies from an industry that despises men, particularly Alpha males. If you don't believe this, then you haven't kept up with the trend and theme of movies over the last few years.
My view of what the "Matrix is: It is a system that is trying to control and dominate us. We see it at work in our corrupt U.S. government as being dictated by its leaders. Most who are informed believe it is actually a global movement. I would tend to agree with that but I wouldn't bet my life on it.
"Man is a product of his environment.
I am who I am because of my father.
My environment was cultivated for me at a young age to assure professionalism.
I then cultivated my own environment as a young man.
A diamond is born under pressure.
Without that very particular environment it’s developed in, it would just be coal.
As a man, it is your job to meticulously cultivate an environment that can only result in one outcome.
There is a reason The Matrix has taken away every single superhero from society.
Batman, Superman, Spiderman, all of them.
Their modern versions are weak and effeminate compared to what they were in the past.
The Matrix killed off James Bond for a very specific reason.
They understand that by changing the environment of the masses, they can reach a desired result.
They purposefully change the culture in an attempt to turn you into who they want you to be." A.Tate
Don't buy into the lie.
The man pictured above is Canadian boxing great George Chuvalo. A tougher than nails fighter who didn't know the word quit.
It was only a few years ago that I found out what a Beta male was. It was described as the better version of what a male should be when compared to the much vilified Alpha male.
Take a moment as I did and do a Google search about Alpha males. What I found was various sites that described them in most unfavorable and untrue ways, while others sort of softened the concept of what a real Alpa male is. Toxic masculinity and misogynist are a few of the favorite terms they like to use regarding males who are assertive, take charge, are confidant, and truly masculine.
Now the Beta male is heralded as what an ideal male should be. Here is what I found when I looked up the traits of a Beta male: Follows rather than leads, He's conflict-avoidant, He's just not competitive, He tends toward introversion, He's happy being in the number two spot, He leads towards co-dependency, He's a yes man, He is friendly to a fault, self-accepting, not inspired by the thrill of the hunt. I could go on but you get the picture. My question to this is, what self-respecting male would want to be like this?
What follows is a list of the characteristics of an Alpa Male taken from a webpage called The Beast:
1. He’s courageous
"The alpha male is not fearless. Nobody is fearless. We all have insecurities and fears that we cannot control. However, the alpha male is able to push on in a particular direction in spite of his fears.
He may be afraid that his new business will fail, but that won’t stop him from trying. He may be afraid that the cute receptionist will reject his advances, but he’ll go for it anyway.
2. He can control his emotions
How we react to unfavorable circumstances plays a large role in our lives. If the shit hits the fan and you’re fired, or you’re dumped, or you’re viciously insulted – how will you react?
The alpha male will react by taking a series of deep breaths and evaluating his next best action, he won’t lash out emotionally and dig himself a grave.
3. He has a purpose
It doesn’t matter if you want to be a professional athlete, an accountant, a CEO, or a world-traveler – but it does matter that you want something. When we know where we’re heading – when we have a direction in life – we’re filled with a sense of motivation and determination. Our days are spent making progress and striving for improvement. And this comes through in our thoughts, actions, and overall demeanor.
The alpha male always has a purpose. He never just floats around aimlessly.
4. He’s not afraid to make decisions
The fear of making decisions is actually a fear of dealing with the consequences of making the wrong decision, whether that means eating at a shitty restaurant or investing in a shitty company. This stems from the courage we covered in number 1 above, but it deserves its own number because people recognize decision makers. And they identify them as leaders. And alpha males are not afraid to lead.
5. He’s not afraid to say what’s on his mind
People have grown overly sensitive. All too often we don’t say what we’re really thinking. Maybe we’re afraid to hurt someone’s feelings. Or maybe we’re afraid of starting a confrontation.
The alpha male proceeds and states his honest opinion despite this fear. No, he doesn’t do it haphazardly to the point where he’s needlessly making people feel like shit or starting worthless fights, but he doesn’t let an uncomfortable interaction stop him from getting what he wants.
6. He doesn’t let any one thing rule his life
Some people become consumed by their careers. Others are consumed by their relationships. When this happens, everything else starts to fall apart. Their health declines, their career declines, and their relationships are ruined.
The alpha male recognizes that life must be balanced. Work, love, health, and friends are all essential areas that must be cultivated in order to maintain a strong lifestyle across the board.
7. He maintains his physical health
How we feel and how we act starts from within. If we’re 300 pounds overweight and we haven’t slept in 3 days, then nothing else matters. Without a strong, healthy body we cannot have a strong, healthy mind. And other people’s perceptions of us will also deteriorate. After all, first impressions are everything, and what do you think when a fat slob stumbles into your path at the grocery store?
The alpha male values his body above all else, because he recognizes that without his health, nothing else matters. He eats well, and he lifts weights.
8. He’s not afraid to say “no”
People will ask you for favors in life. This is inevitable. And if the benefit of the favor to the other person outweighs the cost of doing the favor to you, then it should be done. But these costs and benefits should be measured. The alpha male is not a pushover. He doesn’t blindly oblige to the whims and requests of others. If his boss asks him to stay late, but he has plans elsewhere, then he kindly says “no” and moves on.
He doesn’t feel the need to explain himself either. He’s not saying “no” out of hatred or contempt, but rather because he’s looking out for his best interests. Selfishness is underrated. I’m not saying to be a selfish asshole, but if we all looked out for ourselves, then we’d all be much better off.
9. He acknowledges his weaknesses
If you’re blind to your weaknesses then you’re setting yourself up for failure. They will continue to undermine you at every step of your life until they’re addressed and improved. It doesn’t matter if it’s a categorical weakness like being bad with women or a character weakness like being impatient (this is my achilles heel).
The alpha male doesn’t get depressed about having a weakness. And he doesn’t deny it out of a sense of pride. Instead he realizes that he’s lacking, and he moves to fix it.
10. He holds himself with a strong posture
The final item on this list is a physical one. How we hold ourselves directly impacts how we feel and how others perceive us. The alpha male doesn’t slouch forward or stare down at his feet when he’s talking to you. He holds his head high and looks you in the eye. And this strong, confident posture is mirrored inside of him."
As I have written before, this American society no longer wants Alpha males. They don't even want them in our military. Read how the hapless loser, General Milley, second highest ranking military person in our feckless government, made it a point to say he wanted, in so many words, to get rid of all the Alpha male types in our military. That he wanted to understand their "white rage." Is it any wonder that only 27% of our youth are deemed fit for military service and that they are lowering physical and mental requirements to get in?
An American society without Alpha males is an easily led one. For example, look at the prominent Alpha male in our country who has been hounded and wrongly accused for SEVEN years. And please, forget your f'ng political beliefs, unfair persecution to anyone by the government and society is not right. You don't think they will not try to eventually go after your "rights?" Read a world history book and get back to me.
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